Your ex-wife - rant

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We have choices like Jarheaded states. We can turn our heads or we can do what I consider wasting energy trying to change people, that you can never change. I almost didn't post this as I felt it was a waste of my time and energy to involve myself in such debate. I guess I had a little time to waste. I can only be responsible for my actions, and the way i live my life(as honest and right as I know how). Good luck all I'm still looking for my potential EX,LOL. Victor
 
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No ex for me. We've been fighting for 33 years now. [}:)] The casual observer would often think that divorce is imminent, but neither of us wants to go that nearly far. We just like making up. ;) However, both of our sons have exes and anything I've ever said about them is 100% factual. I just don't remember if any of it has been said here, so I'll apologize for any offense JIC. But one day I may forget and post something else, so I'll apologize in advance for that. [}:)][:p]
 
Originally posted by rlharding

For those that do: please stop referring to your ex-wife. I have no interest in the state of your relationship and I am fed up of reading snide comments about ex-wives. Have some respect; go and talk with a therapist if you feel angry, this is a pen turning board.

End of rant.

I don't know but this sound a lot like a troll at work........At least thats what I think,looking to get something going on a quite night.
 
Originally posted by 7miles

I don't know but this sound a lot like a troll at work........At least thats what I think,looking to get something going on a quite night.

Ruth's no troll, Dale. She has her likes, she has her dislikes, and she's comfortable enough with us to let us know about them. That's all.
 
I know y'all laugh when I talk about finding my "harmonic balance." For me, this thread is becoming rampant with negative energy. I'm going to walk away from it. It's just not good for the IAP camaraderie.
 
Originally posted by Proud_Poppa_of_2

Originally posted by 7miles

I don't know but this sound a lot like a troll at work........At least thats what I think,looking to get something going on a quite night.

Ruth's no troll, Dale. She has her likes, she has her dislikes, and she's comfortable enough with us to let us know about them. That's all.

Ok if thats the way you see it,
 
"I have no interest in the state of your relationship and I am fed up of reading snide comments about ex-wives.

This comment will probably come off sounding pretty snotty but it's just standard operating procedure regarding postings on the internet.

It's really rather simple. Don't read them. I surely don't read every post on this BB. You don't have to either.
 
Originally posted by 7miles[i/]
I don't know but this sound a lot like a troll at work........At least thats what I think,looking to get something going on a quite night.



I've seen Ruth's work on other forums, she is not a troll. I think you owe Ruth an apology.
 
Originally posted by ed4copies

Cav,

Once again I am happy to help you in your valiant attempt to command the American language.

When Gary refers to himself as a "unitary sagging individual", he is asserting his ability to direct ALL powers to himself. You will find that "unitary" has no definition outside the context of administrative power. So, Gary shows he is omnipotent, albeit sinking somewhat (or a member of the Screen Actors Guild who wishes to stay anonymous)--hence, the term "sagging".

So, should you spy Gary and <s>I</s> me walking together, it would imply we both have VERY long appendages. [:0][:0][:0][:0][:0][:0]

After all, to stroll arm-in-arm :):)from Wisconsin to Florida IS quite a stretch![^][^][^]

As always, this lesson is gratis, and yes, "You're welcome!!"[:eek:)]

Of course, the grammar lesson is gratis as well. :D
 
Originally posted by Ron in Drums PA

Originally posted by 7miles[i/]
I don't know but this sound a lot like a troll at work........At least thats what I think,looking to get something going on a quite night.



I've seen Ruth's work on other forums, she is not a troll. I think you owe Ruth an apology.


I disagree Ron........I do not... There is no apology needed for thinking.......After all thats what you did in your statement
 
Dale, what Ron is, in my opinion, trying to convey to you is this: If you take a few moments to review Ruth's post history you would find that trying to start a fight is not consistent with any other posts she has made. On the other hand, there are those in the IAP who might try to stir the pot on occasion. Yes, I am aware that I could be considered one of those, so there is no need to mention that idea.

For you to come to the conclusion that Ruth is trolling with her entry is not substantiated by any available information other than an overactive imagination.
 
I think we all have our own opinions about things and should learn that we don't need everyone to have the same opinion. I posted my answer the way I see things and so have others. There is nothing wrong about having an opinion and it is one thing that you can have your very own one of. I personally don't find Ruth to be a troll, I think she has an opinion of her own and I do respect that and the fact that she has the guts to speak it. This is supposed to be fun, so let it be fun. If someone wants to post off-color humor, that is their right. But at the same time, if one wants to make a statement about someone else, that is also their right. I still hate my ex wife no matter how I state it,so I will state it in whatever way I feel but will try not to offend anyone by doing so. Ruth, if I offended you by what I wrote, that was not my intentions but it is how I feel about things. And I think Doc made the best statement by saying he was unhappy with this thread and was going to ignore it. Smart man. If i feel that I really need to make a statement to someone that is going to be found offensive, I personally would PM if I can't say it to their face.[:0][}:)]:D
Ed, my grammar is incorrect and that is my wrong, but it is mine and if you want to pick it apart, that is your right. :)
 
Originally posted by Russianwolf

Originally posted by rlharding


Someone mentioned that 97% of the board are men. I really had a good laugh at that one. The implication seemed to be that this is a man's forum and that means it's OK to speak badly about women to whom you used to be married.
Now see, I interpreted it as there are likely more members with ex-wives on the board than there are with ex-hubbies.

Thank you, this was my point!!!!!!!!!!
 
Originally posted by DCBluesman

Originally posted by Penmonkey

None of this bothers me a bit. I'm free and easy.:D
Not me. I'm reasonable and easy. [8D]

Lou and reasonable in the same sentence .. I'd almost buy that ... but I am a happily remarried woman.;):D];)

Now if Ed or Cav made this statement I'd probably be on the floor laughing so hard I'd have busted a gut by now.[}:)][}:)][}:)]

[:X] Mrs.
 
Originally posted by wudnhed

Originally posted by Russianwolf

Originally posted by rlharding


Someone mentioned that 97% of the board are men. I really had a good laugh at that one. The implication seemed to be that this is a man's forum and that means it's OK to speak badly about women to whom you used to be married.
Now see, I interpreted it as there are likely more members with ex-wives on the board than there are with ex-hubbies.

Thank you, this was my point!!!!!!!!!!

Wow that was how I took it too. Although just to be clear .. anyone that wants to speak badly about ex's should feel free to do so as long as it's clean and in good fun ;) ok moderately good fun [}:)]
something close to fun???[8][}:)]



[:X] Mrs.
 
This topic is too funny to read sober. Since I work in law enforcement, which seems to have a high divorce rate, I hear a lot about exes at work. I like listening to the comments because it makes me realize how lucky I have it (going on 6 years of marriage to a "most of the time" very difficult woman, lol) BTW my friends and family said it wouldn't last past a year and I'm six times that now lol. IMHO, which means little, as long as the comments aren't against the rules of this forum, I say go for it. (And yes I'm sober right now, just way past my bedtime lol)
 
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