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Hello Daniel
My prayers are with you and your better half. Keep your chin up my soon to be x-wife had full blown breast cancer 8 years ago and she has been clean the rest of the time. Hang in there you folks have my best.
 
<clip> I was in the room while the Doctor preformed the surgery, Was doing just fine until he started using scissors. I am not sure just what it is about using sicissors but I guess I will never get used to it. I made my usual departure and I thinnk my wife actually got through it better than I did. <clip>

Thinking good thoughts... but I thought I'd share a humorous thing. As I was reading this, I got to wondering what the phrase "my usual departure" means to you. I think if I would have been in the same situation, my departure would have been hitting the floor! The only thing close to this was I was in the room for my wifes c-section when my daughter was born, and I sat by here head, blocked by the same "cloth" that they put to block the view for the mom.

So hopefully, your "usual departure" was a little calmer than mine would have been.:biggrin:
 
God bless you and your wife Daniel! You did the right thing even though some may think it was overkill. You can't play around with lumps in the breast.

I am glad the surgury went well and I hope you get good news soon!!
 
Daniel, that is good news and my prayers will be with you. Hope that the biopsy is a good report.
My wife has been cancer free for nearly 6 years now, but I remember those days as if they were yesterday.

John
 
Daniel,
Healing energy to Kim and you. It is always scary during the waiting process. Hope that Kim takes it easy and that you can both do something to keep your minds occupied. Let us know how the biopsy turns out.
 
Daniel, that is great news and glad to hear it! When we went through this procedure a while back, the doctor assured us that most of the time, if it is cancer, they have a pretty good idea when they leave surgery. The biopsy is probably more formality and due diligence than anything else right now, but I will continue to lift you and Kim in prayer for a healthy, happy, speedy recovery.
 
Nope Dean, I hit the floor for about 20 seconds. It has happened to me three times in my life and every one was when I saw scissors being used to cut flesh. once on a dog. once when going to classes when my first baby was going to be born and yesterday. sort of tics me off a bit since I can handle everything else about surgery. I have no idea why the idea of scissors is a problem. they could do the very same thing with a scalpel and I would have no problem.
anyway it made me really sick for a couple of hours. sort of like having a hang over. spent until 11:00 last night running for things for Kim or trying to help my little Girl with the Baby. Has been a fun 24 hours. Kim is still sleeping so she has gotten a good nights sleep. I am trying to let her get as much as possible. My thinking is the more her body can get past the shock and stress the more it can work on healing.


Thinking good thoughts... but I thought I'd share a humorous thing. As I was reading this, I got to wondering what the phrase "my usual departure" means to you. I think if I would have been in the same situation, my departure would have been hitting the floor! The only thing close to this was I was in the room for my wifes c-section when my daughter was born, and I sat by here head, blocked by the same "cloth" that they put to block the view for the mom.

So hopefully, your "usual departure" was a little calmer than mine would have been.:biggrin:
 
Cindy, We started making Moccasins for everyone in the family last weekend. I have to make a set of patterns for my son who wears a size 13 shoe and the patterns we have only go to size 12. I could not get at ease setting in the other room so finally I took a piece of plate glass I have to draw on or whatever. went in the bedroom and set in bed with Kim all day working on drawing the knew pattern. Made at least one bright portion to a hard day. we then had a constant stream of kids, dogs and friends coming back to our room all day, But I think it really helped Her sort of feel like we huddled a little tighter. I know it made her feel safer to have me at arms reach all day.

Daniel,
Healing energy to Kim and you. It is always scary during the waiting process. Hope that Kim takes it easy and that you can both do something to keep your minds occupied. Let us know how the biopsy turns out.
 
Daniel & Kim,
Jesus said, "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in Heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, There am I with them. Matthew 18:19-20

Prayers your way!! And based on the responses here, it's a done deal!!:angel:
 
Dear Kim and Daniel,

You have my thoughts and prayers. I can only imagine all the things that went through your minds and hearts making this decision. But things look well now. And I'm trusting God sees this through and biopsy will be clean. Take it easy.
 
Nope Dean, I hit the floor for about 20 seconds. It has happened to me three times in my life and every one was when I saw scissors being used to cut flesh. once on a dog. once when going to classes when my first baby was going to be born and yesterday. sort of tics me off a bit since I can handle everything else about surgery. I have no idea why the idea of scissors is a problem. they could do the very same thing with a scalpel and I would have no problem.
anyway it made me really sick for a couple of hours. sort of like having a hang over. spent until 11:00 last night running for things for Kim or trying to help my little Girl with the Baby. Has been a fun 24 hours. Kim is still sleeping so she has gotten a good nights sleep. I am trying to let her get as much as possible. My thinking is the more her body can get past the shock and stress the more it can work on healing.

Yikes!!! Maybe not so humorous then.. I guess the phrase was right then. Hopefully you both continue to do better and everything gets to 'normal'!

Heres hoping that you hitting the floor and a couple of days of recovery are the worst of it!
 
Daniel,
Don't know how I overlooked this thread. Glad everything is turning out OK. Will still keep both of you in my prayers for a good pathology report.
 
I am on my way out the door to work so I only have a few minutes to write. But wanted everyone to know the Doctor called yesterday afternoon and the mass was Benign. That is the good kind of mass for anyone wondering. Thanks tons for all the prayers, thoughts, PM's and personal encouragement. Kim is getting pretty much back to full steam and will start hounding about the honey do's any moment now. Gotta go to work for the next few hours. feels weird I have been camped out by her side for two days now, not sure I am ready to leave for 8 hours yet.
Thanks to all for all the love and concern
 
I am on my way out the door to work so I only have a few minutes to write. But wanted everyone to know the Doctor called yesterday afternoon and the mass was Benign. That is the good kind of mass for anyone wondering. Thanks tons for all the prayers, thoughts, PM's and personal encouragement. Kim is getting pretty much back to full steam and will start hounding about the honey do's any moment now. Gotta go to work for the next few hours. feels weird I have been camped out by her side for two days now, not sure I am ready to leave for 8 hours yet.
Thanks to all for all the love and concern

Yes! :bananen_smilies051:Thanks for that report...answered prayer.
 
I'm at work but on break so have a bit more time to reply now. It is nice to be able to breath normal again. Kim is doing very well. Tuesday was rough due to her reaction to the anastetic. basically she had real severe muscle spasms and ended up with a lot of cramped muscles. after a good nights sleep she snapped back pretty well. She has not needed any pain meds for the last 24 hours and is already complaining about itching. she will be able to take a bath this morning for the first time so that will help her feel normal as well. I have the kids running the house, doing the cooking and what not so she get a vacation for the rest of the week. Actualy she is bored so I think I will not be running the house for much longer. I know to focus on treating the stress to the body for the first 24 hours so that it can be stronger on healing. seems to have worked well in this case. I rate her at about 90 percent right now and don't expect to be able to see any difference in her in anouther 24 hours. In the precess of this thread I have been contacted by other members of the group that are in a simular situation. I am not putting out names since they have not chosen to make their situations public just yet. But I am asking for a general prayer for healing where cancer is concerned for unnamed members of this group. For me, my faith leads me to pray as a first resort. For me this is an attempt to prevent mistakes, misread reports or tests and things like that. basically a desire to insure that correct decissions are made at every step along the way. So please keep your prayers coming for others in this community.
 
Rejoicing with ya'll for the good news and recovery. Thank you for sharing your request and for petitioning prayers on behalf of others. I am new to this forum and feel blessed to be apart of it all ready.
In Him,
Bigcountry
 
Daniel & Kim,
Jesus said, "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in Heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, There am I with them. Matthew 18:19-20

Prayers your way!! And based on the responses here, it's a done deal!!:angel:

Bob, All I can say is thank you for that. I know it is true, I feel Him with us. He leads me to dark and scary places only to have to remain to comfort me. You think it would have been a lot easier on Him to just make life easy on everyone. But I have learned that would only make for very meaningless relationships. it is hard to express your love for someone when everything is always good. leaves a lot missing in the depth of your emotions when you never have the opportunity to "Show Up". He does and just when I have any thought contrary to that He reaches out to place His hand on my shoulder. Just like He did through you with this post.
 
Bob, All I can say is thank you for that. I know it is true, I feel Him with us. He leads me to dark and scary places only to have to remain to comfort me. You think it would have been a lot easier on Him to just make life easy on everyone. But I have learned that would only make for very meaningless relationships. it is hard to express your love for someone when everything is always good. leaves a lot missing in the depth of your emotions when you never have the opportunity to "Show Up". He does and just when I have any thought contrary to that He reaches out to place His hand on my shoulder. Just like He did through you with this post.

Daniel, you are being subjected to the refiner's fire. Gold must pass through the trials of fire to become purified. You are coming out of this a better man.
Mal 3:1-3
 
Daniel,

I am so pleased to hear of the positive outcome on your wife ordeal. Please know that you and your wife are still in my prayers for a complete and speedy recovery.


Jim Smith
 
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