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THere are a lot of times I start to post and end up deleting it. Some times it was something witty or slightly silly and I get up and walk away, when I come back it just comes across as plain stupid, sometimes i forget to walk away. I have always thought there really ought to be a "sarcasm alert" symbol. that way other people know that anything between the sarcasm Icons is just that. I strongly believe some people "drink and type".

Whether I brighten up the room entering or leaving probably depends on whether or not Ive had a shower beforehand.:biggrin:
 
Ed, Thanks for the perspective on just what this group is. I also like the question "Would you say it front of a whole group?" I often think about that when I am posting because I have spoken in front of a group on several occasions. I have also met several members face to face and that does help. I also think that the avatars with pictures of real people help Because if I don't think of being in front of a group I can picture being in front of a person. But even more it is the sharing of life that goes on here that helps me remember these are people here. I don't always have the sweetest things to say and I believe Curtis has caught more of my unthoughtful words than anyone. I am a pretty grumpy person in real life if I get irritated. I tend to think less how I phrase my words to those I like the most. Not an excuse. And I have to back track and patch up wounds that where never intended.

I have spent quite a bit of time lately on a couple of other forums. Ones that have more of the typical unwritten rules of conduct and are very clickish. I see lots of people complaining about life situations that they clearly create for themselves. Judgmental people complaining about being judged, that sort of stuff. I do see people get moody here. Possibly even one or two that try to take advantage or have varying levels of morals. I also see diverse personalities here. there is the loud and bousterous. the class clown, the serious and stoic. But I can't think of one person I know from this group that I do not like.
There are waves at times, probably more now than ever. But under it all I believe the people here are good honest trustworthy people that share a passion. I don't mind the posts that end in a argument when the issue is the safety of others. I also don't tend to mind the ones that are an issue of what makes up this group. Should we be known as those that bad mouth every single flaw in every single supplier? I hope we never become that. I hope we are the group that demonstrates to suppliers where penturning is going and what is desired for tomorrow. ABove all I hope this group remains the sort of group that invites and incourages the new member to speak up. ask questions, share new ideas, and feel as welcome as the person that has been here for years.

You do not have to earn a place in this group. This will be dear to you Ed
"Our only requirment for membership is a desire to make a better pen" But we highly recomend you bring photos.
 
"remains the sort of group that invites and incourages the new member to speak up. ask questions, share new ideas, and feel as welcome as the person that has been here for years." I guess publicizing post counts does not promote usage??
 
ThomJ said:
Yes, plural. I'm a graduate of the Jethro Gibbs School of Marriage
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LOL! Me too but both of my X's are deceased (not of my doing:confused:). Told the LOML we better never divorce:eek:........

On topic, I try hard to be a good guest, have bitten my tongue many times but use the "wait to post" method. I come back later and feel it's not respectful or worth the frustration it can cause. I think I have noticed that most of these outbreaks happen in the summer when the weather starts to get hot but that may be my imagination too:confused:

This is such a great site. Thanks Jeff, Scott, Curtis, Ed, Cav and all that contribute to running it. Your hospitality is much appreciated by me.
 
I am normally the quit guy in the back of the room, till I get to know people.
Once I know ya I tend to be the guy that dont shut up and you wish would leave.

I am still in the getting to know people stage and as such I tend to type alot of post up and the delete and dont even post to the thread. Being from Mass (New England) we have a different sense of humor then most. We are also an angrier bunch also overall.
I have been a good guest to date. I do like to read most of the post but I have started to skip the post made by a couple people on the boards but I have not blocked them as of yet. You cant get along with everyone all the time. I am in the younger group of people on this site and being younger there is a generation gap on top of that people my age think I am odd :biggrin: and I am ok with that.
 
We hope to be very welcoming to "newbies"!!

But, old or new, a bit of decorum makes you a far more "desired" guest!!

Don't offend others, don't take offense easily!!

AND, if you hit the yellow triangle, quote the TOS that have been violated---not what you WISH was there, what is ACTUALLY there!!!
 
Thanks to Jeff, Ed and all the members here. I have been welcomed from the start. I enjoy the knowledge that is shared, ideas offered, suggestions, helpful hints, blanks, tools, the tutorials that are made by so many wonderful craftsmen/women....the humorous story of the day....the supplies and equipment designed and made by our members here....all things designed to help in the journey of our wonderfully addictive craft....I believe i am a good guest, i help when I can, bite my tongue and move on when i dont' agree, and overall enjoy all that contribute here in so many ways...
Thank you all!
 
Some pretty interesting stuff in this thread. I consider myself a guest who arrives early and is the last to leave. I'd be mingling around the room and socializing with everyone. But they'd be wondering who this 33 year old kid is, as most everyone in the room is older.:) I would definetly have a few story's to share with everyone. As the night went on, and I drank more and more Tequila. I could possibly blow a head gasket and cause some trouble. Most times I know when to say when, but occasionally I let my temper get the best of me. That being said WHEN'S THE PARTY!!
 
Near lathes and sharp tools----FORGET the tequila!!

(I think that can be a contributing factor to some of the comments that cause "issues", as well)
 
Thanks Ed.

When I first visited USA in 1974 I discovered many new expressions both good and better, a new way of spelling, a different approach to most things. This visit of mine coincided with the Worlds Fair in Spokane, at this wonderful venue I found people from all over the world intent on sharing their cultures and experiences.

Joining the IAP I have attempted to share, indeed made some wonderful friends, have never understood ageism as you are as young as or old as you choose. In three days time the LOML and I will have been married for 55 yrs best friends for 58 yrs and yes I do have the secret using that small phrase often Yes Darling, or Sorry Darling.

I use as an Avatar the two maps one of Nth America with Australia superimposed to scale to indicate the relative sizes of these two great countries. During my many visits in America I discovered few folks know much about Australia so I often have given details of locations and specifics re Timber etc. My whole existence involves sharing, giving, so my membership follows this priciple.

Last PITH exchange for me was with Ed and Dawn, such a wonderful experience I commend to everyone. I have bought so many Pen Blanks and other items from contributers to this forum that have enriched my life. One valuable item was sent post free for my evaluation or return I was honoured by such trust.

Thanks again Ed for the kindness you firmly display to us fellow members and best wishes to everyone, I look forward to the upcoming PITH hope we get to swap, exchange and enjoy our pens for a long time to come.

Regards Peter.
 
Thanks to all!!!
I stumbled on to this site in May of last year while trying to figure out how Pens were made, and I have never left. This site has helped me to take something that I wanted to know about and turn it in to something that pays for the education that I am still getting here. And just recently I was asked how I did something instead of asking how it was done, there is no way to put in to words what that means to me.
So for now, Thanks to all for every thing that's been passed on.
Oh by the way this is # 1501 Post. :rolleyes::biggrin:
 
I can definetly bring the Tequila. Hope you like Cuervo 1800 or Cabo Wabo that is so cold it gives you brain freeze. If it's a real bash I could bring some Don Julio Reale (sp?). Ed I don't know if alchohol is a contributing factor to the madness. As Milli Vanilli once said "Blame It On The Rain".
 
maxman400 said:
Thanks to all!!!
I stumbled on to this site in May of last year while trying to figure out how Pens were made, and I have never left. This site has helped me to take something that I wanted to know about and turn it in to something that pays for the education that I am still getting here. And just recently I was asked how I did something instead of asking how it was done, there is no way to put in to words what that means to me.
So for now, Thanks to all for every thing that's been passed on.
Oh by the way this is # 1501 Post. :rolleyes::biggrin:
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ONE THOUSAND, FIVE HUNDRED POSTS-CONGRATULATIONS. This man is a real contributor. :biggrin:
 
EBorraga said:
I can definetly bring the Tequila. Hope you like Cuervo 1800 or Cabo Wabo that is so cold it gives you brain freeze. If it's a real bash I could bring some Don Julio Reale (sp?). Ed I don't know if alchohol is a contributing factor to the madness. As Milli Vanilli once lip-sync'd "Blame It On The Rain".
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Fixed for ya. ;)
 
Didn't catch that at first!! They were the best Lip Synching band ever. They made Hundreds of Thousands for doing nothing.
 
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