dntrost
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With tomorrow being 9/11 I wanted to post this note and share my experience of 9/11/01.
I am sure we all know where we were that fateful day and exactly what we were doing the minute we got the news. I happened to be in an airport in West Africa (Angola). I was headed for home which at the time we were living in England (a two year assignment I had for work). I work for oil company (don't hold that against me) but most of the people were heading home after a 28 day stay in Angola, and most were going to the states. Of course they all were not allowed to leave and ended up stuck in Angola for 7 days. I however was able to fly up to England as they did not ground flights abroad. Of course the news was sketchy and the talk was that things were being exaggerated until...we landed in Paris and saw the news. I did not have a cell phone and was unable to reach my wife so she was very worried.
My Brother, his wife and 2 children live in New York. His son Gregory (my nephew) had just visited us in England and was very excited about his new job. When I returned home (to England) my wife told me Gregory was missing. Of course my heart sank and I called my brother to see what was going on, only to find out he was in the second tower 86th floor (almost exactly the point of impact of the second plane) of course they had not given up hope and were frantically looking in every hospital, posting signs and generally just trying to hold on to any glimmer of hope. I could not do anything flights were still grounded and my brother was adamant no one was to fly anywhere! Well of course as soon as flights resumed me & my wife and children flew to New York to comfort them and do what ever we could do. Two weeks after 9/11 we did have a memorial service (no remains found**) Gregory was 26 years old single, college graduate with a great job in the stock market. So tomorrow as that tragic incident is played on every TV please "Don't Ever Forget" there were 2987 lives lost and countless lives changed. It is a very tough day for my family. My brother once said to me "How would you feel if Rian(my son) were killed in a horrific car accident and it was played on the news every year after." I know the dramatic pictures help people remember but it is very tough on the parents and children who lost family members....
Here is a website from the school Gregory went to; they have an annual golf tourney every year in his memory....
http://www.foretrost.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=1&Itemid=3
**The side note about remains is two years ago (yes 5 years after the event) they did recover some remains which of course was very emotional for my brother and his wife. They held a private service and finally felt this was closure of sorts until the FBI showed up for a second time with more remains some 4 month later, from what I understand this was not uncommon. My brother had to tell them he did not want to know if anything else was found just so they could move on and not continue to be haunted by this.
Thanks for letting me share my story…. I am sure others might want to reflect how this event changed their lives or where they were that fateful moment.
I am sure we all know where we were that fateful day and exactly what we were doing the minute we got the news. I happened to be in an airport in West Africa (Angola). I was headed for home which at the time we were living in England (a two year assignment I had for work). I work for oil company (don't hold that against me) but most of the people were heading home after a 28 day stay in Angola, and most were going to the states. Of course they all were not allowed to leave and ended up stuck in Angola for 7 days. I however was able to fly up to England as they did not ground flights abroad. Of course the news was sketchy and the talk was that things were being exaggerated until...we landed in Paris and saw the news. I did not have a cell phone and was unable to reach my wife so she was very worried.
My Brother, his wife and 2 children live in New York. His son Gregory (my nephew) had just visited us in England and was very excited about his new job. When I returned home (to England) my wife told me Gregory was missing. Of course my heart sank and I called my brother to see what was going on, only to find out he was in the second tower 86th floor (almost exactly the point of impact of the second plane) of course they had not given up hope and were frantically looking in every hospital, posting signs and generally just trying to hold on to any glimmer of hope. I could not do anything flights were still grounded and my brother was adamant no one was to fly anywhere! Well of course as soon as flights resumed me & my wife and children flew to New York to comfort them and do what ever we could do. Two weeks after 9/11 we did have a memorial service (no remains found**) Gregory was 26 years old single, college graduate with a great job in the stock market. So tomorrow as that tragic incident is played on every TV please "Don't Ever Forget" there were 2987 lives lost and countless lives changed. It is a very tough day for my family. My brother once said to me "How would you feel if Rian(my son) were killed in a horrific car accident and it was played on the news every year after." I know the dramatic pictures help people remember but it is very tough on the parents and children who lost family members....
Here is a website from the school Gregory went to; they have an annual golf tourney every year in his memory....
http://www.foretrost.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=1&Itemid=3
**The side note about remains is two years ago (yes 5 years after the event) they did recover some remains which of course was very emotional for my brother and his wife. They held a private service and finally felt this was closure of sorts until the FBI showed up for a second time with more remains some 4 month later, from what I understand this was not uncommon. My brother had to tell them he did not want to know if anything else was found just so they could move on and not continue to be haunted by this.
Thanks for letting me share my story…. I am sure others might want to reflect how this event changed their lives or where they were that fateful moment.