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RAdams

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20 years ago, my mother, high on cocaine, tried to commit suicide. My mom lied to the case worker and told them that my dad was strung out, and my younger brother and myself were put into a Juvinile shelter. We were there for about 4 or 5 months when we were transferred to a place called America Legion Childrens Home. The only one thing that made us eligible to go to ALCH, was our dad's time in Vietnam with the Marine Corps. We spent just over 14 months there.

200 miles from home. My mom could not take us because of the drugs, and the suicide attempt. The courts wouldnt let our dad take us because of lies by my mom so we were stuck. My parents were both given an extensve list of things they had to do to even be considered for custody of us. The lists were crazy. drug counseling, AA meetings, NA meetings, life skills classes, mental health evaluations, the works. After about 14 months of being there, our dad completed his list. Our mom hadn't even started on hers. They finally gave custody to our dad, and we got out the day after my little brothers 12th birthday and NEVER LOOKED BACK!
We have both (my bro and me) have grown into strong, successful men, despite the drama of not only missing out on a childhood, but being locked up. The 19 or so months we were locked up was the absolute worst time of my life. Every day was a war.

I did not post this to draw sympathy for myself. Do not feel sorry or bad for me. My past made me the man i am today and i am thankfull for that.

I am posting this to give you a mental picture of one reason why a kid would be in ALCH. Consider losing your mom or dad in combat, and having no other family, so they stick you in a childrens home. Or maybe your parents are split up like mine, and one of them is a loser and lies on the other and next thing you know, because of their disgust toward each other, you are paying with your FREEDOM.

The American Legion Childrens Home is a place that tries to help with kids of military veterans. They have been around since the 20's, and do good work. They have helped alot of kids, and continue to do so.

The ALCH does recieve quite a bit of grant money, as well as money and support from Americal Legion troops around the country. There are also some wealthy people that donate time and money during the holidays.

What i am asking for, is something similar to the pens for troops thing. One of the things listed that they always need at the ALCH, is ink pens. Oddly enough, that is somthing i know a little bit about, and have a little network of friends that know more than me!

There are approx. 65 kids on campus, and i would REALLY like to put a pen in each of their hands. Unfortunately, I am a poor boy, and 65 pens would mean no electricity for a month and my wife would not be happy about that.

SO, I am calling on my friends (and enemies) here at IAP.

If you want to send them straight to the campus, that would be awesome! If you want to send them to me, and I will add them to the collection i had already planned on sending to make one big collection, we can do that as well. Imagine what a hand crafted pen might mean to one of these young kids. I can't speak of their excitement, or lack thereof... But i can tell you how much it would mean to me if we could do this. I would be forever in your debt if you helped me out on this one.

Their mailing address is listed on their website...

http://www.americanlegionchildrenshome.org/index.html

If you want to ship them to me, and i will more than likely hand deliver them (about 3 hours one way), PM me for my address. Either way, let me know if you are sending pens directly. I would like to keep track of what is sent.

Thanks, Ron




Our History...
The American Legion Children's Home was established in 1928 as an orphanage for children of veterans who could not provide care for their young. The land, as well as the funds for the first dormitory, were donated by E.W. Marland, Conoco Oil man and past Governor of Oklahoma. The facility now serves as a Home to 62 children, ages 11 - 18.
Over the past 80 years we have served children from a wide variety of backgrounds with very diverse needs caused by loss of family, depravity, abuse or neglect. Since opening in 1928, the Home has served approximately 8,000 children and still stands as the one and only American Legion Children's Home in our nation.
 
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As a past juvenile detective for the City of Los Angeles PD I have been on the other side of what you have delt with. Believe me it is hard to put kids in the homes. It is hard to see the parents they have.
For someone to make it through the system and make something of themselves is hard warming. After all of the incidents I have been involved in the ones I remember most is the success's.
Your story is truly a success.
I hope you give your father a hug as often as you can, he has earned it. Give him a thank you from a retired juvenile detective that appreciates good parents.
PM sent
Ellis
 
I know from this group you will be blessed , I will send a couple acrylics gender neutral pens to you....... if you keep track and are a few short I will send more ....
just ask

pm sent fore address
David
 
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YOU FOLKS ARE AMAZING!!!

I think i have sent all the PM's out. If i missed you, Please let me know and i will send you the addy.

If everyone that has signed up sends 2 pens, then as of right now, we are already 1/3 the way to the goal!


I would really like to get this done asap. Like before Christmas would be amazing! I am not trying to hurry anyone though. If it happens after the first of the year, well that is cool too.

Guys, I don't want anyone to have to pitch in to cover the difference. Just send what you can, and that will be wonderful! There is no need for anyone to have to cover a large part of this goal. If anyone has to cover it, it will be me!!! I really appreciate the gestures of wanting to make sure that every kid gets a pen, but when i started this post, I had already resigned myself to the fact that i will be not only picking up any slack (if there is any to pick up), But i will be making a yearly pilgrimage to the ALCH with that year's crop of pens! So with that in mind, If you want to go above and beyond giving in the first place, then send a couple extra pens.

Another turner also offered to provide some kits. If anyone has kits, but no time to turn em, SEND EM TO ME! This is my number one priority right now, so it would be NO PROBLEM for me to turn them! Right now, I have 6 kits of my own dedicated to the cause, and more to come soon!

I am going to photograph everything that comes in, and everything that i make, and of course i am going to take pics when i deliver the pens. I will have to be careful because i cant photograph the kids, but i can take pics of the campus, and my visit! I will definately post pics here for all to enjoy!


And on another note, Seriously people, I am sure that alot of you are considering throwing something for me in the box when you ship it... DONT.

One giver has already said they were going to send me some 360Hbone material and i said ok because i rreally want to make a 360Hbone. Then it dawned on me, Other turners think alot like i think, and i would no doubt throw something in the box for whoever was organizing it. That is a super awesome thought, But it would make me feel like a turd recieving gifts for myself out of doing something for someone else. So, seriously, Please help me to not be a turd!

If i missed anything, Or anyone has questions, thughts, comments, pens... just post, or PM!


THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Ellis,

My "Pops" was an incredible man. He taught me and my brother that a rough past is no excuse to be a f$*^ up in the future. If anything, it is that much more reason to be and do positive. Growing up, we, just like everyone else in that situation, was expected to be in prison or dead by 30. What the people making those rules didn't take into account was my Dad. He gave everything so we could have something.

I can't physically hug him, but you better believe that a day does not go by that i dont hug him in my mind.
 
Sounds good Tony, Do you need my address, or are you going to ship directly to the campus? So far, i think pretty much everyone doing this has decided to ship here so i can hand deliver the pens all in one deal. I haven't heard from anyone yet saying that they were shipping direct anyway.
 
Ron,
I'm in for a couple. Let me know if you need more.... For some reason I have quite a few kits sitting around here waiting for a home! :eek:
 
WOW! YOU PEOPLE ARE SO AWESOME!!!

I am not going to say any names, because some of the donations have been somewhat anonymous so far, but i will say this.

one IAP member is going to make 15 to 20 pens!
two IAP members are going to make a couple of pens, and send some spare kits!
LOTS of IAP members have signed up for a couple of pens!
one IAP member has donated their time and ability to help me get the spare kits turned!
A couple of our PREMIER penmakers have even signed up. To me, it says alot when someone puts their money making operation aside to make a couple of pens for some orphan kids. Especially considering some of these people dont even normally make slimlines and the like.

You folks be prepared to hear alot of Thank You's from me for a WHILE. I really owe you guys and gals. Without you, this would just be a pipe dream. I could never afford to donate so many kits. I promise you, these acts of kindness are appreciated.

This just being the first day of this thread, I am sure there will be at least a few more people donating their time and materials. Keep em coming! Anything over the mark, I will leave for the kids that will be coming in over the year.
 
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The Numbers have been AMAZING! We should have no problem setting the goal! It is not too late to get involved. Even though we should have no problems getting to the goal, If we make it over the goal, I am leaving everything on the campus for the new kids that come in so YOU can still get in on the action!

I have also recieved word on a donation of a few pen blanks, and some CA glue for the spare kits that are going to be coming in. I already have lots of homebrew blanks, and can happily donate as many of those as needed. We have pretty much everything covered, except refills and my wife is working on that locally. We will no doubt have a beautiful collection of fine ink pens for these young Americans.


I am going to shoot for delivering the pens on December 18th. Just in time for Christmas. Hopefully everyone can work with this date???? The Legion is a crazy place around the holidays, so they may ask me to wait till after the Holidays but i doubt it.
 
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Ron, I want in also. PM me your address and I will send you a pen or two.

Also, I replace all of my stock refills with the R9000 refills and would be glad to send you the stock refills I have on hand and can do so a couple of times of the year.

Doug
 
PM's sent... And yes, i will take all the refills you want to send! Hopefully we will be able to get some corporate sponsorship on the refills, but until then i know they will need some.


Again, I thank you folks from the bottom of my heart! The response has been fantastic!
 
Ron, I sent you an e-mail. I don't get on IAP as much as I used to, so e-mail is the best way to get me.
It looks like you are getting plenty of support. Tell me what you need or I will just guess as to what supplies you will need for future pens for the kid's.
Ellis
 
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I got a reply in email from the Legion. They are very excited at the mention of me visiting. They are also excited about the pens. I called today and left a voicemail for the Lady that covers this stuff. She didn't get back to me, so i am going to call again tomorrow, so i should know tomorrow afternoon about the delivery date.


I just have to say again, THANK YOU. You folks have absolutely amazed me. I was excited to be doing this, Now i am humbled. I am proud to say that i am a part of it.
 
Ron,
Send me a pm. My dad is a lifetime volunteer (over 40) years with the Salvation Army. In honor of your father I would like to help out.

Doug
 
Doug, PM sent! Thank you Sir!

I am expecting the packages to start arriving tomorrow or the next day. When i start recieving them, I am going to start a new thread and post pics of everything that I make, as well as everything that comes in. I will keep all of the donations anonymous, but i do want everyone here to see the products of all the hard work!

Thank you again to all who are helping!
 
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