Sure glad its not a naked lady walking around on your neck:wink::biggrin:!
I got my first tat when I was 18 (too many years ago). It was a butterfly (so cliche) on my chest and I don't remember it hurting so much. Thru age and gravity It has since turned into a dead moth:frown:. Got another a few years ago placed much more strategically on my leg. MAN it was painful, got thru it but won't be getting any more. Good luck with yours, I like the meaning .
On the neck is perfect. Maybe some barbed wire / razor wire Too but surrounding the family as if it's "protected" and have the wire wrap all up the side of your face and make it look like it's digging into the skin with blood coming out.
I was with you till it started climbing my head. The razor wire idea is kinda cool, but i'm not Mike Tyson. The face, even for me, is pretty extreme... Maybe when i'm 60 or so.