I've never used anything but original Gorilla Glue for the tubes and haven't had one slide out yet. Maybe I've just been lucky so far? I haven't been doing this so many years as some of you, so it's probably bound to happen some time. Can't say I have anything to compare it with, but if I did try something else, it would be epoxy. What have you been using and has it worked reliably for you?
I keep a small spray bottle around with water in it, so I squirt some in the blank and shake out the excess before glue-up. Also, the water does expand most woods a little and the tube is a tighter fit while it starts to cure, sometimes tighter than I would like. I rough up the tube pretty good, too. As harsh as it sounds, I typically use a coarse metal file. A couple quick swipes don't seem to weaken the tube any. At least, I've never had problems with them. Have used 80 grit, too. Again just a few good scratches. I would agree that you have to spread the glue evenly, which can be tricky without making a huge mess, but, to my thinking, the foaming will fill any gaps and grab the wood better by getting in the pores, as long as you have most of it coated.
As to what Penicillin said, are they laying on a level surface? I usually do several glue-ups at once and leave them on a piece of waxed paper on the work bench overnight. A couple times, when the tube seemed very loose in the blank, I tried the rubber band trick wrapped around the length to cover the ends, but the tube never slid out to touch it while drying, so I stopped worrying about it.