Jared ... I want to take a little more time to help you understand what I mean by "good faith" as it relates to IAP. I realize that you're still a teenager ... and a fairly young one at that. At the same time I recognize that you have so many good qualities. I've admired your entrepreneurship and your talent for recognizing good looking wood and cutting it into blanks to sell and trade.
Often times, in IAP, you'll hear members kidding about the addiction of penturning. That addiction goes beyond just turning. It extends into the world of wanting more tools, equipment, pen kits, and pen blanks. Who doesn't want it all? The hard part is being able to apply the brakes. You have to learn to set goals and lay out a plan for achieving those goals. For example, "Do I want a rose engine lathe?" You bet your socks, I do. But, I'm not going to get one by asking people in IAP to donate one. The only way that I'm going to get one is through hardwork and saving money.
It would be grossly unfair of me to come to IAP and say something like, "Oh, look at me. I'm having such a hard life. We just put down my beautiful Golden Retriever and now I need a rose engine lathe to help me overcome the grief of my loss." Life doesn't work like that. You and your friend need to learn to be resourceful but not at the expense of getting others to feel sorry for you.
I hope this helps set you on the right path. I, like many others, enjoy having you in IAP and we like reading your posts. Don't get discouraged by my posts. As we say in the South, "Buck up." Help your friend find a legitimate way to earn what he wants.
I appreciate your friendship.