Nolan, I would PM PTJeff as he said. I would also look for the right doctor. I would "ask" the current doctor if he minds if you seek a second opinion. Merely asking goes a long way of keeping a working relationship with the current doctor in case he is needed. If he doesn't like you seeking a second opinion, then he isn't the doctor he ought to be.
WARNING ON NOT TAKING CARE OF SELF:
I grew up with the kind of work ethic that I am reading into you. If I got hurt, I dealt with it. I went to the doctor and he fixed what he could but I had to deal with it. As a teenager with a workaholic dad on a family farm, I carried my weight figuratively and also physically more than my then 150 lb frame should have. Today I have chronic back problems.
7 years ago, I feel off of a ladder and broke my wrist in two places. It also dislocated my hand. (Saturday afternoon, small town, no hospital or clinic open
Seeing my hand in the same level "plane: as my fore arm, but raised up above the arm and placed on top. It looked like a fracture compound in this manner ( fore arm __-- hand) instead of this (fore arm -- -- hand) .
"Knowing" that I was going to have to be operated on and put in an emergency surgery immediately, I couldn't accept the thought of spending two or three days without a shower with all the dirt and sweat on me. SO I did a towel bath with one hand before going. (Wife was yelling at me to hurry!)
Now for the IMPORTANT MISTAKE that has had LASTING EFFECTS: It dawned on me that my hand might simply be dislocated! With my good hand I pulled my "out of plane" hand and "whoosh" it jumped back into place. I went to the doctor, he found two minor breaks and put a cast on it. He and the nurses did NOT believe me or my wife about my dislocation as we described it. They just rolled their eyes and made comments about pain/emergency often deceives one in the actual severity of a situation.
My Problem today is because I did not get treatment for tendons, muscles and nerves that were damaged because the doctor did not see it or believe it! I also do not have it in my records. There might not have been anything else that could have been done, but at this point, no one in the medical profession knows about it.
PLEASE Take care of yourself!