Stuff happens, guys.
Yes, I am a member of Karl's blank club, too.
Please try to put yourself in his shoes. Divorce is messy, ask about half the guys in America. When it gets closer to the actual date, her attorney wants to know EVERYTHING about you and, if you ever want to visit your kids again, you better co-operate. Your mind is not quite right for about two years (after the decree is settled).
I believe Karl is a man of his word, in terrible circumstances. If it was YOU, would you rush right into IAP every few days to say there is nothing you can do, right now??? Probably not.
First, there are more pressing issues that need your attention and second no one likes to say, "I CAN'T".
I usually do not editorialize, I try to stick to facts in my postings. This time, let's say I hope to "take one for the team". Shoot the messenger -- but be kind to the temporarily afflicted.
Good Luck with your day-to-day trials, Karl.